"Dear Goldmindnews,
My name is Blessing and I have been married for five years I must be sincere to say that the marriage is heading for the rocks because of my husband, Benjamin, is no more the man I used to know.
I
am 30-years-old and he is 38 but his sex drive has hit a bottom rock
and I don't know if I can stand it any longer. I am still sexually
active but Ben is now more of a one-minute man who is not only weak in bed but he does not want to seek any help from doctors.
When
we were dating, our sex life was one of the things that made me accept
to marry him. For one, do not think I am a sex addict but the truth be
told, every woman wants a sexually active man and back then, Ben could
not seem to get enough.
Even in the first
two years of our marriage, the sex was still great but after our first
child, getting into the third and fourth year, it dwindled, so much that
I would be lucky to get it once a week. From
there, it was a tug of war
to even get sex once a month, with Ben giving me one excuse or the
other.
I could have understood with the
work pressure and all, but anytime he agreed to have sex, he would not
be able to hold an erection for more than two minutes. It will take me
an eternity to get his penis to get erect and when it does, it will go
down immediately, even before he enters me.
And
for the next month or two, it would just fail to get up. I have
cajoled, begged and fought my husband to get medical help but he will
have none of that. He keeps claiming that there is nothing wrong with
him.
In fact, the last time I brought up
the issue, it caused a serious fight and he told me I could leave his
house if I am not satisfied with his sexual performance.
It will shock you to know that in the past two years, we had not made love more than three times and this is not exaggerating.
I do feel for him because he was not like this when we got married but I cannot continue like this.
What do I do?
Blessing."
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